tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39471739030359997792024-03-13T21:46:21.757+05:30Quintessence Queen!musings,bittersweet lines good,bad but not ugly!life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-90806091526899701792011-04-28T21:30:00.001+05:302011-06-20T13:19:28.593+05:30THE CROWS<span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">Crows, those ugly, pedestrian- looking, croak-voiced ignominious birds have been the last subject to spark a writer's imagination . But they recently did mine as they generally do, for I believe in an old Chinese proverb that 'Love for a person must extend to the crows on his roof '.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">As I lay on my bed today, looking outside my casement, my eyes wavered to a thicket of very tall trees. I do not know what trees they are, just this that they are lush and tall - tall enough to reach a six-storied building. These trees , which so much resembled the redwood trees, were around 150 yards away from my house. The weather outside was hot with approximately 37 degree celsius. But the trees appeared quite cheerful as they merrily swayed their branches from left to right.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">The noise from the outside world was blocked by the French-glasses and I was cozily nestled inside the sheets with my a.c. on to 24 degrees, trying to catch 40 winks after my lunch. I tried.</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">I tried, with my eyes fixed on those trees. Then I had the sight.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">A murder of crows suddenly flew out of the tree in such dense clusters that I sat up on the bed. They circumnavigated around the tree three times before they again lodged themselves on its branches. It was like a ritual. It was like a sacrament performed for some practice. They circled so for 10- 12 times after which they would again perch on its myriad branches.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">It was such an amusing act that I was quite lost in their animated enterprise . Coincidentally, I wondered too that in all my bird-watching in their aerial flight I had never encountered a clash of two birds.... But what were these crows actually up to? Why did they rise up like a sudden eddy of leaves in the Fall ? Did the leader crow make some kind of a rude comment to which all the rest revolted, or was there some sort of a coup in the crow-haven?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">Maybe no. But I did move out of my bedroom, out of my living room, out of my house and in no time found myself standing beneath the tree. The crows were making an ear-splitting , cacaphonic sound. I craned my neck and strained my eyes as far as they could. The tree was really sky-high. I endeavored to scan through the dense foliage and the leaves-clusters.Nothing was visible at all. Then as I decided to give up my effort and had turned my back, a drop of glutinous, slimy red blob fell on my hand. I shuddered. I wiped my hand behind and again turned my face atop. And then I saw it.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">There between the twin shaggy branches of the tree there lay a gilded adder. It was big. It was long. It was dead. But what was alarming was that it was ripped and half- mauled. The ravenous crows were feeding on it. And therefore the wild orgy !</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">They were behaving like the fanatic tribals of some semetic origin and I thought it were only us, human beings who performed rituals and ceremonies ! I was quite jolted with the sudden turn of events. What seemed to be an apparently harmless, playful afternoon game of these birds was not so sporting after all.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;">I returned home with a heavy heart.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />.<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-39196029013606256032010-05-25T14:08:00.003+05:302010-05-26T11:19:39.942+05:30It Feels Good<p>If you are not one of those whom God always challenges with dollops of woes ........., it feels good.</p><p>If you have never felt the urge to question God about life and death..........., it feels good.</p><p>If you never went through anguish loneliness and heartbreak............, it feels good.</p><p>If you have never seen the ugly, the decrepit, the impoverished, the insane and the morbid............, it feels good.</p><p>If you never have had dark circles under your eyes, pain in your belly or freckles on your skin..........., it feels good.</p><p>If you never had to see your loved ones suffering..........., it feels good.</p><p>But the question is, if there is no winter will the spring be as welcoming?</p><br /><p></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-66206052744422741102010-03-30T11:34:00.005+05:302013-08-02T13:09:01.113+05:30SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>So much has been said about beauty that any other opinion about it is redundant: beauty within, results in beauty without, and that this inward beauty makes us more pretty and so on... Yet say must I why I feel this way . </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>The above mentioned thought about beauty came to me while talking of John Keats' famous rumination- "Beauty is truth, truth beauty...". It was like opening a can of brewing thoughts when I announced this topic to my class for chewing the fat. Some said, Truth is beautiful, citing the hindu ideology of <i>'Satyam Shivam Sundaram'.</i> Truth is God and God is beautiful, so truth is beautiful. Plain logic. Those who rebutted this idea opined that in today's world, truth is bitter. It is so stark and naked that we have to sugar-coat it with artificial and insincere words. So how was truth beautiful ...?</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>I discreetly stood aside, savouring the spate of such ebullient and buoyant ideas and got lost in my own world of beautiful contemplation. </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>I could not help but think of Hirbaiben Ibrahimbhai Lobi, the winner of Real Heroes of India 2010, under the Social Welfare catagory. A true grassroot entrepreneur, she comes from a tribal clan of siddi community in Jambur village, at Junagarh (Gujrat) . She changed the fate of the women of her village by starting an organic compost farm. Besides giving employment to the very downtrodden women of her clan she furnished them with tips for scientific farming which she got from the radio. The radio is still her constant friend. She set up a kindergarten school and presently looks forward to open high school and college. And this is not her first award. In 2006 she was awarded the Jankidevi Bajaj Puraskar for rural entrepreneurship. She works closely with the Aga Khan Development Network. All this is really amazing given that Hirbaiben herself is uneducated. She was orphaned at 14 and nurtured by her grandmother. </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>When Hirbaiben got up on stage to collect the citation and honour for Real Heroes, she smiled . </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>I can assure you she had not gone to any parlour to have her facial done for this special occasion, nor was her teeth scaled or polished by an expert cosmetic dentist . Even her hair was not shampooed ! Her dark, freckled cheeks with eyebags, the dark brown patches and her yellowed teeth were all too prominent to ignore. Her super plain <i>salwar kameez</i> was far too modest ! And yet when she spoke in her incomprehensible siddi language with her face lit up with an incandescent smile, her voice unquivered with emotion, I knew I had heard the most dulcet and harmonious voice. She broke into a song so guileless that even the cuckoo might wish to sing with her. The pain of her life did not get obliterated in her eyes, though. They had so much to say......</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>With great effort I returned from my reverie to my class. I was a bit lost. I remarked as if in a trance :"You don't need to look beautiful to be beautiful". </b></span></div>
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-85399724629381605752010-02-24T12:21:00.002+05:302010-02-25T11:59:27.282+05:30Gucci's Mysterious Parcel<p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">Things when searched are never found.On the other hand, other things that were lost earlier, show up.This is one recurring problem in my life that defers many urgent jobs. </span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">I am sure this problem is equally plaguing others.</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">Talking to Devi on this, I said I was not able to find my pan-card, although I had very carefully kept it inside my locker.I had frantically searched my semi-organised safe. I took out all that was there, the files , the packets, the envelopes (inside-out!) and even those documents where pan-cards are not supposed to stay. But I did bump into the KISAN VIKAS PATRA that I had lost some time back.Devi agreed to my predicament and said she had faced the same music more too often. Her case was different though, she said and narrated her woe.</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:courier new;"><strong>Nikhil, her husband</strong> ,<strong> had to go to New Jersey for his official business. He called Devi from his office to ready his passport, which he said he had kept in the first drawer of the fifth cupboard of his master bedroom.He had to leave that night and was desperately jammed with office work. So if Devi could pull it up ready for him...she would really be an angel. Devi,the ever dutiful wife, drove back home from the middle of her AIWCC meeting of which she is the convener. She immediately got to work on reaching home beginning with the first drawer of the fifth cupboard of his master bedroom ! </strong></span></span><span style="font-family:courier new;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>She didn't find the passport but she found the long lost manuscript of the valedictory speech that she had prepared for Mrs. Mehta's farewell, last month. She had searched and searched then. She had dived into all possible racks and shelves - small and big of her master bedroom for her selfwritten declamation of the ten- year - tenure of Mrs. Mehta at AIWCC. This was done with much effort and more pain, for it was like salvaging the performances of Mrs. Mehta's contribution to the social services which were close to nothing! She had spent the lion's portion of her office in either getting straight with Mrs.Raghavan or confiding her bedroom secrets with Mrs.Chandra. Not finding any historic or histrionic bravado, Devi had created some contributions on her own to make her last day at the Association, a memorable one. And more importantly to remind her what she could have done. </strong></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>This important note Devi had lost at that precise moment.Very reluctantly she had delivered an impromptu speech, which, though widely appreciated, did not pacify her.</strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;"><strong>Now for fifteen whole minutes she looked at this four and a half-page manuscript wistfully, teary-eyed. What use was it to her now! Yet she could not throw it away.</strong></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:courier new;"><strong>But her target today was the passport.She resumed her search. She looked inside the other chests. It was not there too. Time had come for Devi to gear up for a massive haul, she thought. Pulling up the strings of her boots, taking some deep breaths, she did a C.I.D - type search of the room. Needless to say, the passport did'nt show up. But Devi definitely did find her School-leaving-Certificate, a pair of wedding pendants, the bank's lost passbook( lost three years back and a new passbook issued) and Wow! a packet of Gucci's lingerie, stashed inside Nikhil's wardrobe. Passport issue became <span style="font-family:georgia;"><em>ad interim</em></span> </strong><strong>. Lingerie took the centre-stage.</strong> </span></span></p><p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">Should she open the packet? Her heart flirted like a butterfly and said "yes", but her mind stood like a fortress and said "no". It could well be her birthday surprise that Nikhil had planned. WOW! </span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">Devi called up nikhil at his office and informed him that she did not find his passport. Nikhil said he was busy and could'nt remember either.He disconnected the phone. </span></strong><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">In less than five minutes Nikhil called back . He said, "Listen honey, just look for a packet of Gucci's lingerie."</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">"Should I look inside it NOW? I mean, it's not even my birthday?"</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;">"Nonsense, passport has nothing to do with birthdays." Nikhil's humour had become very wry...work pressure... and all that,Devi thought. Yet following Nikhil's instructions she did open the packet and lo! her eyes widened. There lay the...</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-family:courier new;"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Devi now asked me to guess what she had found that day inside Gucci's packet. I guessed right. Can You?</span></strong><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Georgia;"></span></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-57412478100095573312010-01-31T19:01:00.016+05:302011-07-15T12:59:49.293+05:30THE RECLINING GANESHA<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >It was a Monday morning, yet Nidhi woke up with a palpable sense of excitement. The sun-rays that streamed through her slightly open window appeared brighter and warmer. Even the birds seemed to chirp in harmony to her exuberance. Nidhi felt proud of herself. She was nominated for the Godfrey Phillips National Award (championed by none other than Preity Zinta) under the Mind of Steel category!</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >When her memory flashed back she thought, was it a fluke?</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >No, it wasn’t. She had acted upon directions from her heart and mind. She couldn't accord it to chance or serendipity. It happened naturally. Although, considering her encumbrances, what she did was unnatural, almost impossible....</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >That day was a Monday morning too, but a Monday sans the blues. Her husband Sushil was abroad for his official tour and Ayush, her nine-year-old son, had a holiday from school as their Principal had kicked the bucket. This meant she was free to laze around for some leisure.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Jamshedpur was hosting its 7th annual Canvas Fair at the sprawling grounds of the Gopal Maidan. She decided to visit it with Ayush. It was the right day as there would be no maddening crowd on a Monday morning, no rush no panic. So it was that mother and son drove to the fair.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >They ambled at the stalls lingering here pausing there looking at the vast display of an array of items. Ayush was looking for a stall with Ben Ten toys, while Nidhi was not particularly looking for anything. She paused at one which displayed ceramic items, terracotta, bone-china and other curios. Picking up an idol of Lord Ganesha in a Vinayak posture reclined on pillows in a stately grandeur, Nidhi was struck by the majesty of its simplicity. She marveled at this artifact with veneration-filled-eyes. But her intuition immediately informed her that Ayush’s tug at her sari was missing. After carefully replacing Ganesha, she spun around. For the moment she would forget Ganesha.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >People had begun to pour at the fair much to her consternation. She had forgotten it was the 1st of May, a bank holiday, which gave opportunity for visitors galore!</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /><strong style="font-weight: bold;"><em>Goodness Nidhi!!<br /></em></strong><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Her roving eyes stopped at every stall specially the ones selling toys. Then she did spot Ayush. He was standing in front of a stall, wondrously gazing at a Ben Ten toy. No sooner did he see his mother than he rushed towards her imploring her to buy it for him. It was a fancy watch which was supposed to transform Ben Tennyson into an alien to fight monsters. Nidhi did buy it for him after haggling with the pricey item, for nothing in the world is more gratifying to a mother than her son’s guileless smile.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >But the fair, by now, had become fairly crowded. A surging fear began to grip her. How could she dare to visit such a public place swarming with people ALONE, when she never did so even when Sushil was there to protect her? She never visited any crowded places, NEVER. There fore she had chosen this day.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Nor did she ever use fire except lighting incense sticks or candles, that too with much effort and after more cajoling from Sushil . For cooking she used her heater, a microwave and the cooking- range, not the gas cylinder.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Without wasting any more seconds, she held Ayush tightly and jostled her way out of the fair, almost frantically. Suddenly a scream tore through the air. It was a child’s voice. It was not Ayush’s though it had the same tonality. There was a cry of pain. The scream came from one of the stalls, a persistent hairsplitting scream of despair.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Nidhi gave one lingering look at her son and turned back. Again shoving aside the rabble, fixing her mind at that voice that could so easily have been her son’s, she briskly headed towards the crisis, Ayush's hand clutched in hers. Finally she reached him. His body was on fire. He too was standing before the same toy stall from where she had bought the toy-watch for Ayush. The electrical wires of the stall had burst into flames and engulfed the child who had sauntered there, away from his parents. The people were behaving hysterically and dumbly. Nidhi closed her eyes for the fraction of a second, remembered the Ganesha that she had held in her hands, and with great effort leapt inside the flames. She dropped the child on the ground, covered his eyes and rolled over and over the terrain, clasping the helpless child in her enclosed arms.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Ayush stood powerless in the crowd whimpering at the sight of his mother and the strange child. But what shocked him was his mother’s behavior which was stranger. </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >For who on earth knew better than Ayush and Sushil that Nidhi had a dual handicap. She was pyrophobic and</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" > </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >agoraphobic</span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >. Rare but true. Emboldened by her pluck, someone in the crowd managed to find a thick cloth and wrapped both of them till the flames were doused off. A few even got buckets of water splashed on them….</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Not too long back did these incidents take place. Nidhi smiled. She particularly remembered her journey to the hospital with a good Samaritan at the wheels of her car, Ayush giving her all comfort and solace that was apt for a nine-year old, clutching his toy while the image of the Ganesha flitted in her mind. She had desolated Him but He hadn't. And what more?</span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" > He had cured her disability once and for all !<br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 102, 0); font-family: lucida grande; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" >Looking back on that propitious Monday Nidhi thought to herself, "You have definitely arrived".</span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-29788472838460514892009-10-07T15:31:00.003+05:302010-02-01T11:34:26.939+05:30A stone thrown away at the right time is better than gold given in the wrong time !<div><br /><div><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Yippeee!!!! </strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Yippeee reason 1 : I am back home from my month-long sojourn at the hospital. </strong></em></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Yippeee reason 2 : I finally bought my pair of LSS jeans. </strong></em></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Yippeee reason 3 : I am blogging again ( after aeons!) .</strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Life lands you in the most unpredictable places and predicaments when you expect them the least. No one knows it better than me now. So while I was busy shopping like crazy for the pujas, I had severe bouts of pain, forcing me to take refuge in the most dreaded and cheerless place - the hospital. I was diagnosed with a solitary calculus (stone) in my gall bladder with acute pancreatitis.</strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Need I mention how upset I was with the stone, for jeopardising my plans, with the pujas just round the corner? I remembered how stones of various forms and shapes (real and metaphorical ), had been upsetting me since bygone days. But thankfully those were external ones . This time it had dared to cross the Rubicon and penetrate inside my body ! </strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>When I was five, I was hit by a <span style="font-family:courier new;">stone </span>at the temple which was the first attack from a stone. It had caused profuse bleeding, pain and had left me with a long time companion - scar. My whole family was almost up in arms against the miscreant. </strong></em></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>( Yet curiously enough, my aversion and awe towards the stone-thrower has , in recent years, shifted from the perpetrator of the action to the object itself ! ) </strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Then at the age of fifteen , my friend Menal, who lived at a <span style="font-family:courier new;">stone's</span> throw distance from my house, hit me the second <span style="font-family:courier new;">stone</span>. This time figuratively. She lured my best pal, Rohit into her confidence . He slowly moved away from me. In the event I lost two things : Rohit , and his ever- so - happenning help of Julius Caesar' s notes . </strong></em></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><strong><em>You see , how Menal killed two birds with one </em><span style="font-family:courier new;">stone</span><em> !</em></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>By the time I was twenty I was hit by the 'Rolling <span style="font-family:courier new;">Stones</span>', whose band was founded by Brian Jones, Mick Jagger and Keith Richards. Most of their albums became my treasure trove. I also became a fan of Buddy Holly whose 1957 song 'Early in the morning' contained the lyrics, " Well you know a rolling stone, don't gather no moss, and you crossed your bridge and it's time to cross". It was only after Holly's death that Rolling Stones got it's name.</strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>The next ominous stone that gave me jitters during my graduation years, was a biblical expression, ' Like one who binds a<span style="font-family:courier new;"> stone</span> in a sling , so is he who gives honour to a fool' . I had a hard time to figure out which of the two was referred to the fool - the stone or the sling !</strong></em></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><em>All these years I have been plagued by stones. Never did I fathom that I would carry one within me, literally ! My forsaken sweethearts may have commented at some point of time that I had a heart of stone . This is not true. </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><em>But now I won't mind them saying , "The stone from the heart slipped into the bladder !"</em></span></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Retracing my steps to that doomed, cheerless place , Let me assure my small band of readers that the worst is over. I finally underwent a lapchole (Laparoscopy Cholecystectomy ), after the pancreas was brought to normal functioning. The gall bladder is now a thing of the past . They even removed the organ along with the blighted stone. I don't host it in my body anymore! And for the first - never -imagined- time , I feel a strange pride to show my sympathisers the stone, which I intend to preserve for some more time.<br /></strong></em></span></p></div></div><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><strong><em>My present fears are somewhat different. Some extremely nosey and detracting so - called - well wishers of mine have cautioned me that now that I no longer have the gall bladder, I might , in future, weigh</em> <span style="font-size:180%;">21 stones !!!</span></strong></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-60370459923776118902009-08-15T11:29:00.010+05:302009-09-12T15:30:47.309+05:30LIFE IS COOL<p><strong><em><span style="font-family:lucida grande;font-size:130%;">"This puja I'm planning to buy a pair of jeans." I mused to Devi.</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>This came to her as a shock as I had never in my life invested in a Levi Strauss' and Jacob Davis' creation . Although, no sooner were they launched they had caught the fancy of the young and the old and had become a rage all over the world , I never actually did contemplate wearing one . Perhaps I never found a conducive break. </em></strong><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>"Old age hath yet her folly !" Devi counter- mused in an admonishing tone. Then bracing herself for a more graceful reprimand she said,"Yet what makes you to host this out- of- the -box desire, sweetheart?"</em></strong> </span></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">"Well, nothing phenomenal. Just that I do not want to kick the bucket with the feeling that I did not taste the delicious feeling of slipping into a pair of jeans and in the process also lost the scope of assessing my own physical symmetry. You know Devi, I finally realised that a pair of jeans actually has many merits, quite contrary to my primeval sententious sentiments!</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">Devi was reprovingly all ears, as if to say ,"Let's hear it , baby, let's hear it."</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">"Did you ever think that a pair of jeans can be worn for as many as ten days at a stretch without having to be washed or ironed? Look at our saris. They always wait to be pressed after every use. Our salwars and churidars need a dupatta for extra coverage ! Not so for a pair of jeans and kurti. In the monsoon this scores better than our good old saris. In a sari we juggle to lift them up very cautiously to negotiate puddles of water, which is always so complicated. In jeans just fold the ankle-end as required and your job is done. </span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">"And Devi dear ", I was now quite infused with all it's goodness and felt a strange surge of bravura overpowering me, "Have'nt you noticed the span of time needed to don a sari ? You have to be ever so careful to wrap yourself up with this 9 yard long unstitched dress material. The pleats and the dangler must have a uniformity which is so time consuming. While just slip into your jeans and 'Presto', you are ready for the occasion...."</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>At this point Devi cut me short . She was too confused at the vicissitude of my loyalty which had so suddenly shifted to a less nobler more </em></strong><span style="font-family:arial;">avant </span>garde<strong><em> apparel. She took out her right hand, poked out her index finger and said, "Had your say? Now hear mine."</em></strong></span></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">I seemed to have opened the sluice-gates of her fiesty declamation.</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>"Sari is our national attire. Stalwarts like Indira Gandhi, Sarojini Naidu vouched for it. Women of substance today like Sonia Gandhi , Sushma Swaraj , Renuka Choudhary wear nothing but saris. Saris exhume a </em></strong></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>dignity which nothing else can. Never can a sari offend the propriety of an occasion- formal or informal. It's comeliness is</em></strong> versatile ingenium<strong><em>. There is even a rare decorum in the diplomatic exposures, which assuage the beauty and sensuousness of its wearer. They range from Rs.200 to Rs.2,00,000 or more, meaning it caters to the poor and the rich suitably. There is no danger of looking crass in a sari. Have'nt you ever noticed the distinctive ways of wearing a sari? Each region in our country has a discreet way of wearing it. Is'nt it unique ? It is always so easy for me to pack a suitcase with my saris. Just fold them , stack them strategically and 'Voila' (!) my saris far outnumber Nikhil's , even while he struggles to keep the right crease of his shirts and pants !</em></strong></span></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">Now my o' my ! That was some silencer !</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">There invariably was veracity in everything that Devi had said. I could not but endorse with her opinions. And I remembered my maid too. </span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">For my maid has all the good reasons for wearing a sari.Each nook of her sari has special value for her.With the alacrity of purpose and celerity of her nimble fingers , her sari serves the refuge for all the disappearing items from my shelves and racks. They are so tactfully placed that whenever I point my suspicious finger here or at a projection there, she draws out a harmless miniscule tin and says nonchalantly-"Khaini hai bhabi" !!!</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">[ Yet I must state that I am sticking to my initial decision. I am buying a pair of jeans. Only time will tell whether it will be any other Denim or a Levi's ].</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Happy independence day to me and to all.</span><br /></span></p><p><strong><em></em></strong></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-61613602789037187692009-06-07T17:05:00.005+05:302009-06-09T18:37:02.772+05:30Happy Woman's Day !!!<span style="font-size:130%;">I hate it when the time difference between two blogs gets stretched to more than a week. It stifles me. For one, the thoughts that are cooking in my head desperately wait to be served. For another, my conscience which suddenly becomes proactive, nudges me, and says, "Hey hello, what happened to your panache for writing? You did begin with rave promises, did'nt you? Whatever happened to your word of honour, my ever enthusiastic, propitious lady?"<br />I have no excuse to offer as I have none. Does'nt my own soul know about my handicaps? Does it have to nag me everytime I am late for my blog?<br /><strong><em>Why are consciences so heartless, I ask myself.</em></strong><br />These are hard times. Times, when even our own consciences will not spare us.<br /><br />So how do you expect your mother-in-law to spare you, especially when it's her birthday and you have forgotton it? I was so clumsily lost in the mesh of my other duties that I forgot to wish my mom-in-law a 'HAPPY BIRTHDAY' on her D-day.<br />"This is profanity", commented Devi, when I shared my blunder with her . "You should jot it down in the first page of your favourite diary, write it on the wall, not your Facebook's, silly, or at least note it in your mobile's Reminder." Then after a contemplating pause she added, "Technology should have made you smarter."<br />"Et tu Devi?" "Yours is the unkindest cut of all." I said, giving an ostentatious, histrionic twist to my words, - our role play of 'Julius Caesar' at school had lingered indeed ! - at which we both fell to squeals of laughter. She then narrated to me how she too had been in the same predicament as mine, some time back . And worse.<br /><br />"My mother-in-law is one who does not acquiesce in to excuses hands down. " Devi began, "You know her well. Last month I forgot her birthday. Now stop squinting at me derisively. Okay yes, all those manouvres and hints about 'technology' struck me much later. . .So what ?<br /><strong><em>The point is I FORGOT HER BIRTHDAY.</em></strong><br /><br />Nikhil called from Toronto that evening, to wish her. Thank God I picked up the receiver. He said, 'Hi honey, where's mom, got to wish her a quick " Happy Birthday".' It then struck me like a thunderbolt. But I hurriedly gathered my wits . I said,''Listen sweetheart, I'm planning a grand surprise for mom, so I have'nt wished her yet. I know it's already evening, but that's part of my plan . Just hold on, while I call her." </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I called her.<br /><strong><em>Now I realised why she had been sulking since morning !</em></strong><br /><br />While she spoke I committed another sin. I eavesdropped. But I had to know the details of the burden that she was carrying in her heart. Was she lamenting? Was she bellyaching as if her convent nun stood in front of her?</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">"No, not yet." She was saying, "What gifts? No, no, no,...." This was all I managed to hear.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I stopped eavesdropping. Not because I was struck by remorse, but because I had to think of the grand plan I just promised Nikhil. I was at first restless. What would I plan? I was always such a lousy and lazy planner. In less than a few minutes I had begun to hear the pounding of my heart, or was it the thundering brain? I thought this, I thought that, but nothing <strong><em>grand </em></strong>occurred to my dull, feverish mind.<br /><br />Finally, a feeble idea did raise its head amid the plethora of ludicrous ones. This one was feasible and might even lift her sagging bravura ! I immediately called the nearest florist and placed an order for a nice, sweetly-scented bouquet and perked him to deliver it in less than fifteen minutes time. I took a deep breath and waited. As soon as she replaced the receiver, which she did not after less than half an hour, I fell to action.<br />I started to sing to her her all time favourite song, <strong><em>"Kisi ke muskurahaton pe ho nisar, kisi ka dard mil sake to le udhar, kisi ke waste ho tere dil mein pyar, jina isi ka naam hai. "</em></strong><br />Singing thus I did a little waltz , during which , the flower-man rang the timely bell. I heartily thanked him and paid him the additional perk, for crowning my grand surprise. Then most theatrically, like a thespian, I offered her the floral tribute. There was finally a glow on her face. She seemed happy and what more, I too felt strangely happy. We sat down beside each other. She said, "So this was your grand surprise Nikhil was talking about. But tell me Devi, how was my grand surprise? I did fool you with this sullen face that I put on me since morning. Tell me , haan, I can give Nirupa Roy a run for money, eh? I had checked your diary yesterday and I did see that you had noted down May 8th in a separate page." She had a glint in her eyes.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">But mine were as round as panipuris. So she also keeps a check of my diaries? This was alarming, to say the least. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">The only consolation was, for the time being my face was saved.</span> <span style="font-size:130%;">I completed the rest of the formality by driving us to the nearest restaurant and ordering a sumptuous dinner.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">"But you listen," Devi now moved closely towards me threateningly and added, " NEVER wish her a"Happy Woman's Day" in the coming years. How I thank myself for not adding WOMAN'S DAY beside that ominous 8th May !! There you wish her exuberantly and here I am doomed. Let her blissfully forget that her birthday coincides with Woman's Day.<br />Just as I had forgotton.</span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-63410113756358596322009-05-06T19:26:00.006+05:302009-05-25T11:17:24.724+05:30Life's like that only<p><strong>I am overwhelmed and overjoyed by the concern shown by each of my readers for my blog or for the lack of it ! I also apologise for this long hiatus which stemmed out not because I was undergoing a period of the writer's hibernation and successive germination but because I was visiting different ailing relatives. But now I am back in Jampot, sitting in front of my p.c. and it feels like heaven to be able to write again. During my fortnight's tour to Koltata I finished reading Paulo Coelo's 'The Alchemist' and Jahnavi Baruah's 'Next Door'.</strong></p><p><strong>Things happen when they are destined to happen.<br />I had been contemplating to read 'The Alchemist' since a year. I knew from different media that this book of Coelho's was recorded in The Guinness Book Of World Records for being the most translated book by a living author. Like Santiago, the protagonist, I too have had interruptions between my desire to read the book and to actually read the book. But I only managed to buy a copy of this 1988 published bestseller on 7th May 2009, after a chance discussion with my very good writer-HR-professional-RJ- friend, whose books 'Mediocre But Arrogant' and 'Married but Available' are a current rage in all the leading bookstores of India and abroad.</strong></p><p><strong>So, is twenty years a long time to learn and enjoy something which more than a millon people have already learned and enjoyed ? I think not. For one, the book gives you direction. It gives you faith and reaffirms your confidence in yourself. It gives you the hope that " ...when you really want someting, the whole universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." It establishes a direct link between omens, signs, dreams and the Soul of the World, that is ones' deepest desires.</strong></p><br /><p><strong>The hero's name Santiago, is used only once, which is a striking feature. In the entire story he is referred to as the boy. But Santiago, the name appears two more times : Santiago Matamoros the Saint and the alchemist who looks like the saint Matamoros. It is interesting therefore that a whole story can be narrated even without repeating the name once. What is however more fascinating is the journey of Santiago.</strong></p><p><strong>The journey of Santiago will metaphorically coincide with every man's journey, if he is a forsighted visionary and if he has a dogged and inflexible desire to translate his visions into reality. I have seen and met people - some my own, some not my own and some though not my own, with my very own predicaments. They give me the zing to live. I choose to write about them in the next blogs. </strong></p><p><strong>Meanwhile, let this piece just be the starter to my forthcoming writings. Let this be the 'I'mPresent, if you please' call in the attendance register of </strong><a href="http://nicheofgems.blogspot.com/"><strong>http://nicheofgems.blogspot.com/</strong></a><strong> !!!</strong></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-49181876934821183712009-04-29T20:56:00.004+05:302009-05-04T11:13:25.898+05:30A Voter's Dilemma<strong>Some time back Devi made a comment. She said, " India is a land of past glory, present uncertainty and future mayhem." What made her make such a sorry statement is not totally unjustifiable. </strong><p><strong>We were talking about elections. The country is currently reeling under two spells. The heat spell and the election spell . Anyone and everyone who is some kind of a celebrity is jumping into canvassing and campaigning for some party or the other. But how do we , the totally confused electorate, place our votes amidst this plethora of contestants ? Will they deliver at all? I was strangely reminded of George Eliot's words , " An election is coming. Universal peace is declared, and the foxes have a sincere interest in prolonging the lives of the poultry."</strong></p><p><strong>Only during election time do we see our politicians making patriotic outbursts and rave promises . Although their credibility may stand on flimsy grounds, none shirks from giving hopes, however high, however false. The louder the claim, the more dangerous - as most of them are a pack of thugs. Some are verbally volcanic, some poetic and a few yet too downright arrogant. In skills of oratory we do have quite a handful of leaders who indeed are blessed with the gift of the gab. But the point is, how can this particular skill deliver our nation? How do we choose from this jamboree of specimens ? I for one , along with Devi, did not know a single party that was taint-free, honest, bold, firm and could steer us to our cherished idyll. </strong></p><br /><p><strong>To dispense my confusion I decided to visit some sites like </strong><a href="http://www.jagore.com/"><strong>http://www.jagore.com/</strong></a><strong> , </strong><a href="http://www.lkadvani.in/"><strong>http://www.lkadvani.in/</strong></a><strong> , </strong><a href="http://www.google.co.in/loksabha2009"><strong>www.google.co.in/loksabha2009</strong></a><strong> and </strong><a href="http://www.indianelections.com/"><strong>http://www.indianelections.com/</strong></a><strong>. I did a study of these sites back to back. Yet I confess I was none the least enlightened in any singular upright man. I was aware that our country had a history of promising men- but promising men with a difference. They drew a line for themselves. A line that demarcated their duty before and after elections. Before election they showed great fervour, zest and vibrance. And after the ordeal of elections was over they became like 'deceitful jades' and sunk in the trial.</strong></p><br /><p><strong>I remembered some famous words again. This time Adolph Hitler's : SOONER A CAMEL WILL PASS THROUGH A NEEDLE THAN A GREAT MAN DISCOVERED THROUGH ELECTION. ( I must mention here that although I am not exactly a great fan of Hitler, this quote of his caught my imagination to a great extent ! ).</strong></p><br /><p><strong>"Is election required at all ?" Devi pondered loudly. "I mean look at the amount of money that is spent. Don't you think if all the money were to be utilised in the right channels most of our problems would have been solved automatically , without any leader to boot ? How money is drained to the gutter ! " She moaned pathetically.</strong><strong>I then told her that notwithstanding all her good intentions, election was essential in a democracy. </strong></p><p><strong>After some sigh, a long pause and then a frown that spread to her temple, she remarked with effort, "India is a land of past glory, present uncertainty and future mayhem</strong>."</p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-31767231630385650752009-04-17T07:15:00.005+05:302009-04-23T11:48:55.628+05:30Even The Darkest Cloud Has A Silver Lining<span style="font-size:130%;">So I am back, but I chose to leave the bang behind.<br />The span between my last blog and this one is too long. I duly apologise to my patient readers. Yet I am sure they will bear with me after reading this piece.<br />All this while, time was healing my wounds which I thought would span for long. But you see I have bounced back to life !<br />This is what happened.<br /><br />Piyush Pandey and Sushant Pandey are two brothers. The elder of the two , Piyush has been my student for three years now. He is in the twelfth standard. But Piyush is not my subject today. His younger brother Sushant, is.<br /><br />Sushant is nine and very young for his age. He is an innocent and loveable boy. His mother often complains that Sushant is very finicky. About everything. For instance he does not like his tiffins dripping oil or his glass of Complan with the skin floating on it. It makes him squeamish. His uniforms have to be impeccably clean and if his socks sag even a bit, they invariably become his ayah's son's possessions , much to the ayah's pleasure , his mother's consternation, and his brother's chagrin.<br />If Sushant fell down in school all hell broke loose. Not because he bled or was embarrassed before the girls but because his dress became dirty !<br /><br />This is our Sushant. And there is Piyush - his complete antithesis.<br />My proximity to Sushant has a reason. He is , in many ways, like my own nine-year-old son.<br /><br />On 2nd April, a frantically panting Piyush reported to me over the telephone that his brother had gone missing. It took me some time and some more effort to arrest the news . After it had sunk in with its shock, I called his mother home to verify it, hoping that Piyush was playing a belated April Fool prank with me.<br />( I do not entertain such frivolous jokes normally, but that day I prayed he was playing this silly mischief ) . Their servant picked up the receiver. I was on tenterhooks. Shaky.<br />"Sushant kaisa hai (How is Sushant) ?" I asked directly without beating about the bush.<br />"Aap kaun ( Who are you) ?"<br />"Main Piyush ki teacher ( I am Piyush's teacher)".<br />At this the servant broke down to helpless tears. He answered in Bhojpuri.<br />" No one's at home. Master has gone to file an FIR. My mistress has gone to his school from where he disappeared, and his grandfather has gone to meet the commissioner of police. Sushant has not returned home since yesterday."<br />He spoke the last sentence in an uncontrollable and spasmodic outburst.<br /><br />I was numb. So it was not a prank. Why was this not a prank? What was the family passing through? And why Sushant? Who could even think of kidnapping that cute little boy? What would happen now ? How could I help them? What did the kidnappers want? Could such a thing happen to one so close to me.............................................. ? Innumerable querries pounded my mind. I started praying fervently for the child's wellbeing.<br /><br />Then the horrific thought dawned on me that Sushant was already missing for more than 24 hours !!! The thought of it gave me nausea. I retired to bed.<br />In the next couple of days , I kept myself updated about the latest progress in the Pandey family.<br /><br />After four horrendous days, the family received a ransom call. Sushant's father is an industrialist and the family is thriving. Ironically, they had been waiting and praying for just this moment .They did'nt mind the bail amount. For the joint family of six, nothing was more priceless or irreplaceable than Sushant. So as per the instructions of the captors, on the fifth day they exchanged Sushant for money. No police, no C.I.D officers in plain clothes , no sleuths were allowed to juxtapose between the kidnappers and the family. It was the family's decision. They could not afford to put his life in jeopardy.<br /><br />When they brought the child home I was there.<br /><br />Sushant was dazed and appeared very placid . He struggled to walk . He did not jump into his mother's embrace or cry at his reunion. His mother kissed him, hugged him and wept inconsolably. His grandfather, grandmother and brother surrounded and tried to cajole him lightly to emote. The very thought how the poor boy must have borne their ill-behaviour made my eyes moist. But nothing they did could soften him . What had happened to make the little boy so stoic , I wondered . When everything to normalise Sushant failed, the mother turned towards me, sobbing.<br />"Teacherji, aap hi kuch kijiye na( Please try something, teacher)."<br />Sometimes , the pain of others inspires one to perform miracles.<br />So, I mustered enough courage, prayed to all my adorable gods and casually went towards him.I held his hand. Gulping down my own emotions , I touched his shirt here and his pant there.<br />"My goodness Sushant , you are so dirty! Look at your dress , and have you seen your socks ? Yak ! Go, run and take a nice cold shower after which we can talk."<br /><br />It was the most inappropriate conversation I ever made in my life . But it worked.<br />Sushant took one long look at his dress reluctantly and looked at me. His eyes were teary now. Slowly, with great effort he spoke. His words were barely audible. I drew closer and knelt down before him .<br />"You know aunty, they tied my hands and legs apart. They always kept me blindfolded. I had to pee in my pants all the time.Only in the afternoon did they give me something to eat in a dirty plate and offered me water in a broken cup. I have not brushed my teeth for six days. I never opened these shoes or socks. Once they held me by my tie . I felt I would die. On the first day I threw tantrums. They slapped me. On the second day I cried bitterly. They laughed at me. On the third day I sobbed softly.They jeered at me . I only remembered my mother and prayed to god to help me out of this...................................."<br /><br />He continued. But I was'nt listening. I could'nt listen. I do not know when I had squatted on the ground . In no time , Sushant's mother, Sushant and I had begun to whine in pathetic fits.<br /><br />Later, although the family was grateful to me for making him speak , I cried horribly that night for the second time that day when I thought of the tremendous humiliation, agony and distress that was meted out to that poor boy for six long days.<br /></span><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Sushant's mother called me today. She said among many things, " ...The experience has done him one good. He is no longer fastidious with anything." </span></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-24358014132255245972009-03-29T10:28:00.022+05:302009-04-24T10:22:25.939+05:30Seattle Calling<img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318794069959371986" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 205px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 128px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjI-HBirJFYF9uRb1IieVs8133jJoXVb6uCniNnifMJ4imrdbz5IeVHbXxssZeLdEwejsw6YGjCJ2W4kGYKYjVsqlRXDh8wV9h8D1EgfxvRiAlLwXhiEt9cds7kgaQdB2P3jN6XyWykaJE/s400/seattle.jpg" border="0" /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyrJyJrltiBMzLfBYDNZd3DsWM87YQouVYUO0VfFr8DeEDP5ZSzz8UBXYQgDkwK_q29TGuxZtu4vt-VXLV2nXVGR3V75tt4UdwI_kvhXFVN2WFVSTaMrdsVV-WIBbmXrh9tAab4OkR3zg/s1600-h/seattle3.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318790966252001106" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 223px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 149px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyrJyJrltiBMzLfBYDNZd3DsWM87YQouVYUO0VfFr8DeEDP5ZSzz8UBXYQgDkwK_q29TGuxZtu4vt-VXLV2nXVGR3V75tt4UdwI_kvhXFVN2WFVSTaMrdsVV-WIBbmXrh9tAab4OkR3zg/s320/seattle3.jpg" border="0" /></a> <strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">When Devi's parents set off on their journey to their only son's destination, Devi was overlapped by mixed feelings. On the one hand she was excited and happy, on the other hand she was niggly and jittery. She had her reasons for all these emotions that she harboured. Her parents are elderly (septagerian and sextagerian) . It 's their very first foreign trip, the first halt being London and then to Seattle by a different flight. That's where her brother , their son, lived.</span></em></strong> <p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Devi's brother has been in the states for more than six years now. Her parents have not had a glimpse of him since the past four years. They have not even seen their grandson who was born there. The infant is more than two years now . </span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">In this empty span, her aged father fell ill many times, was hospitalised in the ICU once and suffered unending bouts of depression. He sometimes became vocal about how much he missed his son, daughter-in-law and grandson. Her mother seemed tougher . She had resigned to the fact that since they had given high education to their (brilliant, highly ambitious, always an academic-topper) son , who of course had struggled in his salad days, deserved to enjoy the best, now that he was working with Infosys , a much sought-after company, savouring a very enviable position.</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">"But does the best always lie in Uncle Sam's country?" Devi pondered. </span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">For in the heart of her mother their was a burden, an emptiness which she would always shield with her smiles. None could ever gauge the enormity of her vacuum that sometimes enlarged and burst in the form of migranes, acidity, fever or temper tantrums. Devi tried her best to allay her void. She would pay them annual if not bi-annual visits. Being a mother, a wife, a daughter -in-law and a teacher had clipped her own liberty considerably . </span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">In India, a daughter is a daughter . A son is a son. Their roles are seldom allowed to be reversed.</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#006600;"><strong><em>All Devi could do was to cajole her brother mildly, to show up, with his family, at least during vacations. But it did'nt work. Her parents were cautious not to go overboard with their actual feelings when he periodically spoke to them on phone. They must have nurtured some inexplicable fear themselves. Fear of losing that</em></strong> <span style="font-family:arial;">fragile touch</span> <strong><em>.</em></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#006600;"><strong><em>Therefore the news one day that her parents were flying to their son's place </em></strong><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><strong><em>, sounded great to Devi. She was happy that their parched eyes would now get a glimpse of their loved ones. But the flight ? Could they take it? The long tedious journey, could they endure it ? </em></strong></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#006600;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><strong><em><span style="font-family:arial;">But what can love not do ?</span></em></strong></span></span></span></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Devi was on tenterhooks still. She enveloped them with Reiki's protective energy , being a third degree reiki channel, plus a reiki practitioner . She further prayed to God for their safe landing. Her joy knew no bounds when the plane finally did touch the grounds of the Sea-Tac International Airport. </span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Her brother had come to the airport to receive them with his wife and son. Enroute home, sitting in his son's red sedan, her father called Devi , with his grandson on his lap, ecstasy in his voice and peace in his mind, " Bapi , amra thik -thak pounchhe gechhi ( Sweetheart, we reached here safely. )"</span></em></strong></p><div><br /></div><p><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#336666;"><strong><em>"Sneha nimnagami ( Affection always flows from higher order to the lower order)"- So says a popular Bengali adage. How true indeed it is, for profoundly had Devi's parents expounded it !</em></strong></span></p></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-75448399996638079532009-03-14T11:33:00.012+05:302012-03-09T15:41:53.735+05:30Room with a view<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>The flamboyant season of the colorfully splashy holi finally got over after much fanfare , here in Jampot. Holi is one festival which is played in this part of our country with much pluck. </i></b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>But as I sat for my meditation yesterday, I realised that Holi - the man- made annual festival- was sure over (without doubt ) but in Nature's repertoire , Holi is eternal ; for there lies a wide spectrum of colours in its canister that will never replenish , nor lessen in vibrancy .</i></b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>My meditation chamber which faces the east, has a wide glass window which is lined with a row of potted plants on the external buttress. </i></b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>No sooner was I preparing to start my morning session of prayers than I saw a jet plane flying at a very far distance. The plane was scarcely visible. What was however visible, was the trail of silvery white smoke , resembling bold double - strokes, against the backdrop of the bluish, hoary sky. I sat glued to my floor-mat and began to relish the awesomeness of this simple yet delightful sight.</i></b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>As the seconds ticked by, the straight bold smoke-line got dissipated, became broader and meandered into crooked, undulating fragments like long stretches of a cloud. Scarcely did I close my eyes in an attempt to click the moment in a niche of my memory , as a beautiful souvenir, when suddenly two more planes shot through the sky, leaving again the same trail of silvery white smoke. The broken serpentine smoke was now closely followed by four parallel straight pathways of smoke-lines.</i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>It was 6:15 by the clock. A yellowish aura had begun to fill the eastern heaven with its glow and colour. All of a sudden as if from nowhere a flight of distant birds flew along the trail. The vision was purely enchanting. Pristine . Unfathomable.</i></b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>AND I WASN'T DREAMING ! </i></b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>The background : <span style="color: #66cccc;">the vast stretch of unhindered bluish grey sky ;</span> <span style="color: #ffff66;">An</span> <span style="color: #ffff33;">yellowish halo in the furthermost horizon</span> ; <span style="color: #ff6600;">the bulging orange-like flame of the rising sun . </span></i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>The foreground <span style="color: #66ffff;"><span style="color: #66cccc;">: silvery white rows of smoke on smoke in straight and</span> <span style="color: #00cccc;">not-so-straight lines</span><span style="color: black;">;</span> </span><span style="color: #000099;">a pod of birds following the trail in the formation of a perfect isosceles triangle . </span></i></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;"><b><i>And all this beauty viewed from the blessed enclosure of my chamber ! "If this was not a beatific, blissful sight , then what was ?" I questioned myself.</i></b></span><br />
<b><i><span style="color: #993399; font-size: 130%;">I would fondly love to call this morning experience : " Prelude to the perfect prayer".</span></i></b></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-91013915921248656332009-03-05T18:59:00.015+05:302009-04-30T08:15:27.287+05:30Long live Mr. Hosseini, Long live women !!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj_qRmF0JXAqS-pDFSdkndpboYo6ESTgs_Fq88XpjQdxQKL3XtNvJyv5wbq9hamhDwJ1iWI0jCyG_MIhOprV0Qci0MbuuGtX-8_fDb2r8KooK8aCF4gr9AZiRWq7T2XStJP9ZIV4kmDrY/s1600-h/street+of+kabul.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321838117127681410" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 276px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj_qRmF0JXAqS-pDFSdkndpboYo6ESTgs_Fq88XpjQdxQKL3XtNvJyv5wbq9hamhDwJ1iWI0jCyG_MIhOprV0Qci0MbuuGtX-8_fDb2r8KooK8aCF4gr9AZiRWq7T2XStJP9ZIV4kmDrY/s400/street+of+kabul.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjccTYDd3wnDkvlB_xhG98944qbWubU94MTIcXn3tw0OuAL38eWrgzF8mF9JFr83gJLkf0MmvazTd3MhOgbAs1PwIVkkq2dafKKWzIft5sdxvUXuBAlpOGl4gAyydlea_q1tInkWab07-I/s1600-h/Herat-big+mosque.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321836694436111122" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjccTYDd3wnDkvlB_xhG98944qbWubU94MTIcXn3tw0OuAL38eWrgzF8mF9JFr83gJLkf0MmvazTd3MhOgbAs1PwIVkkq2dafKKWzIft5sdxvUXuBAlpOGl4gAyydlea_q1tInkWab07-I/s400/Herat-big+mosque.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>It will take another thousand years before I get to read a book as intensive as A THOUSAND SPLENDID SUNS.</em></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>I discern a deep veneration for the author, Khaled Hosseini , who has crossed all frontiers in sketching a beautifully sensitive, soul-stirring saga of the struggles of the Afghan women. The plight of the vulnerable women of Afghatistan is so pathetic that I feel divinely blessed to be born in India, a land where we have had women as a Prime -Minister, a President, Chief Ministers, Judges, Speakers, political leaders, not to mention the umpteen lawyers, doctors , engineers, CEOs, magistrates, bureaucrats, IAS officers , pilots.....the list goes on and on. </em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>There definitely is an undercurrent bigotry among the two sexes in India , but where in the world there isn't ?</em></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>Returning to the crux of the story , I must say I feel humbled to even attempt a review of this splendid novel. The two dominant female characters - Mariam and Laila, whose two diametrically opposite destiny , bring them face to face , are hugely enduring and adorable. Their lives are scarred, shattered , tormented .... and yet they LIVE !</em></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>Mariam's life begins as a harami, [ that's what nana (her mother ) calls her] . Born on the wrong side of the bed from the influential and affluent businessman, provincial governor of Herat, Jalil - Mariam's childhood is one of constant humiliation and disregard . Her only tutor is Mullah Faizullah, a priest who infuses in her, faith in the Allah . Jalil loves her, but never acknowledges his fatherhood socially. He has other legitimate wives (three, to be precise ) and other legitimate children ( nine in precise ) to pamper. When Mariam goes to meet her father, Jalil, whom she loves uncompromisingly much against her mother's wishes, she faces disappointment because Jalil refuses to meet her . When the poor distraught girl returns home she finds her nana hanging from a tree.</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>From here Mariam's life takes many twists and turns - being married hurriedly to a man more than double her age, Rasheed , a chauvinistic demon in the garb of a man , who for the next two decades will rule her - bodily and mentally, battering her to the core - till Laila arrives in her life .</em></span></span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>Laila's arrival is both astounding and accidental. When the war - ravaged kabul was firing rockets and bombs, one got hurled on her and she was , in a nanosecond, struck by a cruel quirk of Fate . She was separated from her parents (who too got killed in the bombardment) . And who should find her mauled body but the same demonaical Rasheed ? Yes, Rasheed saves Laila's life , but for himself.</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>It is shattering both for her and for us readers to see her rooted out of her familiar soil , like a raddish pulled out of the secured earth and thrown into some filthy debris . Even her faithful lover Tariq is not around , to save her ! </em></span></span></strong><br /><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">The novel is an ode to human spirit in general and to women in particular.</span></em></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>I again humbly salute Mr. Hosseini for being so sensitive and perceptive in putting together the myriad emotions of the women protagonists: their subtleties ; their characteristic fragments of traits; their strengths and foibles ; their tremendous resilience and ability to weather all torture , persecution...call what you may ; and still they so profoundly retain their sensibilities and warmth.</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>But true it is that how Destiny can digress !!</em></span></span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>Laila who was to live the rest of her life as the lover of Tariq , has to marry the same demon , Rasheed !</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>I swear I never felt so very relieved before , as I did when Tariq resurfaced in Laila's life ! </em></span></span></strong><br /><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">For the sun's warm rays are always welcome in the darkest days.</span></em></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>Although it's very late for Laila, having lost her daughter to an orphanage and her incisor to Rasheed's atrocities, it's never too late to make amendments in life.</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>I will feel quite happy and blessed if my female readers pick up this book from the stores on Women's Day and read it . I am sure ALL of them will feel themselves blessed to be a part of this epic tale.</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>To divulge more secrets will be disastrous for anyone who is planning to grab a copy of</em></span><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><em>A THOUSAND SPLENDID SUNS !!!</em></span><br /></span></strong></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-86622039790771593792009-02-22T10:56:00.013+05:302009-06-15T21:21:16.896+05:30A Beggar's choice<span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I was sleeping in the train<br />When a beggar entered in pink,<br />I woke up, on hearing a noise<br />I thought, I heard a clink.<br />She looked at me with wilful eyes<br />Fanning away the heat,<br />She'd jostled past a horde of men<br />And stood beside my seat.<br /><br />I gave the beggar a two- rupee coin<br />But she gave it back to me.<br />Alarmed I was and taken aback<br />By her alacrity. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"><br />I then gave her a ten- rupee note<br />Which she pocketed sprightly.<br />This made me smile and she smiled too<br />I asked her thus politely - ,<br /><br />"You spurned my first and took my second<br />Was it for less and more? </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Or to let me know the fact<br />That you're unworthy no more ?"</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"><br />She was too quick to shoot at me-<br />( With eyes so sure and trite!)<br />"Coins are heavy, they're noisy too,<br />Notes are lighter and quiet. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"><br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">"They don't bother you as you beg<br />Just press them in, (showing) </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">as such .</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">But coins do let the whole world know<br />How many I have...... how much ! "<br /><br />"Slim in worth, coins tell a lot.<br />They draw all eyes at me<br />They make me feel a cheat, a crook<br />For all my industry.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I would have paced here up and down</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Or this bag beside you kept,</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Had I but notes , no jingling coins</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">You would have blissfully slept."</span><br /><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span></p><p><br /></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-16927525839166724082009-02-10T11:27:00.008+05:302009-06-15T21:16:48.299+05:30THE P.C MAN WHO SAVED MY P.C AND MY LIFE !<p><span style="font-size:130%;">Addiction of all forms is not conducive to good health. </span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Be it cigarrettes, tobacco, drugs........................................or blogging !!!</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Since last Tuesday which was 3rd February , my p.c. was down with an attack of virus. I therefore could'nt work with anything on the computer. It was then that I realised how detrimental the virus was for both the non-living computer and for the living self. I immediately sent a call to my p.c. man to come at his earliest and fix it up. I was going bonkers looking at the dead, lifeless monitor. </span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The p.c man did not show up on the first day. He did'nt show up on the second day either.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">On the seventh day he sent me his most courteous apologies saying he was already booked that day . But he promised to 'ddeffinittly' turn up on the following day.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">BE IT THE FOLLOWING DAY ! I sent a silent prayer above.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The following day I began to wait for him as anxiously as a little child waits to open his birthday gift. I even felt so listless about his visit that I ran up to answer every doorbell . At one point, I felt strangely amused to equate my earnest jumpiness to my teenage days, as I had felt on my first date.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The whole morning he did not show himself. His mobile said, 'out of range'. My anxiousness knew no bounds when once my phone rang . The number was my p.c-man's but it was a miscall. I tried to contact him back but now his cell said, ' network busy'. I was bristling and fuming by now. I remarked sententiously how no one now-a-days was reliable.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Suddenly the doorbell rang. I scampered to reply. It was the maid. Then the bell rang again. It was the milkman. Then again..........it was the newspaperman for his bill . And again.............. When finally for the umpteenth time the bell rang , I gave up. I did not hurry to open the door. But this time it WAS my p.c. man ! He stood at the threshold with a broad grin and a look which stated , "C'mon be gratified, I kept my word."</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">And gratified indeed I was ! For, like a host who welcomes her most awaited guest, like a businessman who awaits to sign an important deal, like an anxious father who waits for the doctor visiting his ailing son - I hailed his visit and took him to the patient ! He said he had brought the antidote er.... the antivirus with him. I was relieved. <strong>T</strong>he patient could be saved now.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">It then took more than three hours for him to finally disinfect my computer .</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">I owe him my lavish thanks . He owes me a lavish treat. May god bless his holy soul for re-aligning me with this brainchild of Babbage! I feel like I got back my breath.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#009900;">BUT ON SECOND THOUGHTS, MAYBE I NEED SOME REHABILITATION TO COME OUT OF THIS ADDICTION.</span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-25609248052104895462009-01-31T18:04:00.016+05:302009-08-19T13:20:07.904+05:30Life does not suck for Her !<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2CRRtZCUB-bq0fwMaWP9L2kqmICZjSjaHuxMXnofJ8-Bb3BbwxrOZw6rZsa-DoEw9H0lbk_Cz_XUu3g8mB2e5sf-iHPS0nCJ2sY-QIx302Ic-4xR1w9BOLFUYrz5UN-yZr_JIef4QbEs/s1600-h/kjij.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371578708047735234" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 299px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 226px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2CRRtZCUB-bq0fwMaWP9L2kqmICZjSjaHuxMXnofJ8-Bb3BbwxrOZw6rZsa-DoEw9H0lbk_Cz_XUu3g8mB2e5sf-iHPS0nCJ2sY-QIx302Ic-4xR1w9BOLFUYrz5UN-yZr_JIef4QbEs/s400/kjij.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>A very close friend of mine works with a school for special children. I have great respect for her. </strong></span><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Like any other expectant mother she too had great expectations from her second issue, because it was conceived after some planning and speculation than her first-born . She did everything for the expedient of the little one. Be it doing light yoga or be it reading scriptures; be it drinking warm milk with a dash of saffron (to enhance the child's skin tone, as per her mother-in-law's advice ) or be it talking and singing to her unborn child. So infectious was her exuberance and enthusiasm that from time to time I could not but call on her, to discuss about the foetal development .</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">"Today it kicked me for the umpteenth time. This little brat is obviously in great hurry to see the light of the world. Or is it mistaking my poor womb to be a soccer stadium?" She would joke.</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">That was six years back.</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Today she is the mother of an autistic child. </span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">She realised her baby was autistic when even at the tenth month the infant did not respond to the love and affection showered on her .She would simply look at them blankly and blink. First they consulted an expert ophthalmologist to verify if it was an eye disorder. Nothing was erroneous. The child would simpy <span style="color:#cc0000;">NOT</span> react to either the mother or the father's touch. This was a heart-rending and a nerve wrecking phase. But in due course of time, my friend realised that it was nothing compared to what was ahead of them in future.</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">She would ask me, "Why me? Did I do something very terrible to deserve this?"</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">I would console her, "God chose you above us because He knew that , you and only you have the patience, resilience and courage to fulfil this daunting task of nurturing your sweet little one . We lack all that it needs to upbring a special child. We are perhaps worthless in His eyes, because if we can proudly call ourselves mothers , tackling our pretty little darlings ( and feeling what great jobs we were doing , when actually, all we do is Much Ado About Nothing ! ), I have no problem in calling you a supermother."</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">And indeed she is one. Besides looking after her two daughters and family, she has got into a school for autistic children.In this way she perceives and understands her child better . Here, she handles fifty more such children, fathoming to know more about this brain development disorder. Nowadays she even handles ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder ) cases with a few children who study at her daughter's school. </span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Today she is able to tell me that autism has :</span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;">*no cure</span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;">*no clear unifying mechanism</span></strong><br /><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">*no study focussing on midlife</span></strong> </span><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"><strong>*no chance of independent living</strong></span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">Autism is a communication disorder characterised by a child's inability to relate to the outside world. Such children are hypersensitive to external environmental stimuli. They love to remain withdrawn in their own world which is accessible only to them.</span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">She now knows how to tackle her. She does it by :</span><br /><span style="color:#3366ff;"><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">*being consistent in discipline</span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">*making frequent and mandatory eye-contacts</span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">*doing her work in a routine or fixed schedule</span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">*touching her frequently(earlier she was aversive to touch)</span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:130%;">*calling out her name everytime she talks to her</span><br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:times new roman;color:#3366ff;">*tries not to react to her tantrums irritably<br /></span><strong>Despite such bleak prospects she has indulged in the studies of this dysfunction which begins during the embryonic stages of development.</strong></span><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">" Most children are undisciplined, rude ,erratic and very unpredictable.Acquiring language before age six and having an I.Q. above 50, plus having a marketable skill - all predict better outcomes ...." She tells me. </span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Her daughter fortunately falls in this category, to her and my great relief !</span></strong><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">When I asked her one day what gives her so much enthusiasm even in the face of such adversity to slog on, she replied to me with a laid-back yet serene tone - "I have simply learned what I can do, and what I cannot do. With my elder daughter I can share a joke or share an emotion. And with my younger one I cannot share a joke or an emotion. With my elder daughter I can be angry, with my younger one I can't"</span></strong> .<br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">Her words reminded me of Jack Canfield when he quoted <span style="color:#ff6666;">Roger</span> <span style="color:#ff6666;">Crawford</span> - who is a certified tennis player and professor of the United States Professional Tennis Association having everything except two hands and a leg ! - in his article, <span style="color:#cc6600;">' Everybody can do something '</span> :</span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">" The only difference between you and me is that you can see my handicap, but I can't see yours. We <span style="color:#993399;">all</span> have them...I've learned that I can't play the piano or eat with chopsticks like you. But what I can do is play with my heart and soul."</span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></strong><br /><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></strong><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-25726735166279645482009-01-28T13:46:00.005+05:302012-02-10T21:58:36.198+05:30ALBUM QUESTIONS<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-size: 130%;">Flipping through the pages of an old family album, my son stopped at a picture . It was the photo of my mother-in-law when she was young and quite pretty. She sat petitely before the Taj Mahal with a soulful look in her eyes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">"Who's this, ma?" he asked.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">"It's your dida". ( In hindi 'dida' becomes ' dadi' ). I replied as casually as he had asked me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">"You sure are kidding, mom. This cannot be dida. She looks so pretty here."</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">He sure was correct. For , my mother-in-law indeed looked beautiful in those honeymooning days. Far from her betel- chewn-red-stained remnants of three pairs of teeth, her smile was nothing short of the Colgate girl ,with a flashy smile. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">"And see, she's carrying a vanity-bag too !" he exclaimed with plenty of skepticism in his big-lashed-questioning eyes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">He simply wouldn't take the once-a-pretty-woman-now-a- grandmother- theory , hands down.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">This started me thinking. We find it difficult to accept certain things about our grandmas and grandpas. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">Like, they ever had black hair or uncreased or unfurrowed skin .</span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">They were born wise. They can never be wrong. This compliment perhaps makes it so much the easier for those septuagenarians and octogenarians who might have failed in school !</span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">They never enjoyed full 16 pairs of dental arrangement.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">Grandparents never knew about sex and cheap things like that !</span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">We look at our elderly generation with a certain veneration, which is absolutely fine.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">But have we ever thought that in doing so we also bind them in a holy halo which at some times may be actually throttling to them. By granting them a saintly stature, are we not denying them some of their needs?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">It's true that after a certain period they may naturally lose the zeal of certain things but what if they don't ? What if they actually enjoy an adult romantic thriller as much as we do but are too embarrassed to acknowledge it?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">In fact , whenever I watch a movie with my grandparents and an unwarranted scene comes up , I am so much flustered by discomfiture that I either start talking too much (about different incoherent things like the weather !) or try to divert their attention : much to their chagrin ! So it is<span style="color: #ff6600;"> I</span> <span style="color: #009900;">NOT</span> <span style="color: #660000;">THEY</span> who am truly embarrassed ! </span><br />
<span style="font-size: 130%;">Coming back to where I started, My son had almost finished and had reached the end of the album.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 130%;">Now his fingers rested on the photograph of his infant father who was a toddler, being given a bath by his mother !</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-34399705975496847302009-01-27T08:40:00.008+05:302009-02-16T22:11:06.517+05:30THE GOOD AND THE BAD OF 'SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE'<p><span style="font-family:lucida grande;font-size:130%;"><strong><em>Wow, What a journey</em></strong> !</span></p><br /><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">What a spectacular J O U R N E Y ! The rise of Jamal Malik from the scuzzy and slimy scum of human excreta , in the filthy slums of Mumbai , to win the two- million rupees from the reality show 'Who Wants to be a Millionaire' , is a journey that not many will opt for . It is incredible but true. <span style="color:#ff0000;">This is GOOD</span>.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Jamal is an orphan. He is a slum-dweller. He and his elder brother Salim , along with many other boys share the same poignant destiny. Each hour is a struggle for these indigents, these innocent flowers , doomed to dwindle in destitution. Each day they struggle to fend for food. When our gluttonous children are guzzling over burger and pizza, these impoverished children are hanging from the train upside down to steal a 'chapatti ' only to be thrown off the train . This is their life. <span style="color:#996633;">This is BAD</span>.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#996633;"></span></p><br /><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">But, Jamal khan is a survivor . He has survived . In the daily struggle in the wild world, he survived - sometimes due to his sheer dumb luck, sometimes due to his presence of mind. He survived when the police 'lathicharged' innocent people. He survived the terrible riots , having witnessed some graphically barbaric molestations and subsequent deaths. He survived the devil's touch when the devil was turning sweet, innocent slumkids into beggars.</span><span style="font-size:130%;">And Jamal survived the police torture when he was wrongly arrested , at the pretext that he had fraudulently qualified for the contest and answered the questions correctly by cheating. For indeed how can a slumboy know so much? </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">But Jamal Malik knew. He knew all the answers by dint of his first-hand experience. <span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#993300;">This was BAD then.</span> This is GOOD now.</span></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Jamal Malik's elder brother, Salim Malik did'nt survive. He had seen too much muck in his life to accept his sordid fate and relinquish in penury. He , the elder brother, the saviour of his younger brother - later got astrayed, for he chose to give his destiny a run for money. So , in his short span of adulthood he bartered his poverty for money at the cost of his morality. The protector , becomes his tormentor. <span style="color:#993300;">This is BAD.</span></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Jamal's childhood friend Latika, who too has grown in the slums , is separated from him , when they run away from the devils .They cannot rescue her. Yet Jamal pines for her. She is sold to a brothel at a very tender age. But LOVE triumphs in the end after many pitfalls.</span><span style="font-size:100%;color:#ffff33;"> </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffff33;"><span style="color:#ff9900;">This is GOOD.</span><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">I don't know much about Danny Boyle except that he has directed in theatres, television, and now directs movies , some of his 'must -watch' movies being 'A LIFE LESS ORDINARY' , 'SUNSHINE' , '28 DAYS LATER' AND 'SHALLOW GRAVE'. His next assignment is 'PONTE TOWER' about a girl who falls prey to drug-peddlers in the Apartheid-ending era of Africa. He indeed is an artist beyond demographical boundaries.</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">But I realised that he was an extremely sensitive man to portray this saga of LIFE in it's sheer starkness. At the same time it is ironical that it needed an Englishman to bring out the bitter truth of </span><span style="font-size:130%;">Mumbai's underbelly in so breathtaking a manner ! I also do not know why the hue and cry about the movie . Why do we fail to acknowledge the truth? For the truth is, Mumbai's 15 - 30 percent of GDP does come from beggary !<span style="color:#660000;"> This is BAD, very BAD.</span></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Unless the truth is accepted, falsity will reign. Unless reality is grasped, change is impossible. IT's about time we accept that we need to eschew our moral-depravity.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">It's time we wake up to awareness ! It's time we educate our poor. So that twenty years from now when English -men make movies of our land, on our land, we do not feel vilified or cringe due to embarrassment.</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">When I left the theatre I had to exclaim," Wow, what a movie !".<br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></p><br /><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></p><br /><p></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-42440123666778746662009-01-21T11:32:00.012+05:302009-01-24T14:13:43.112+05:30A CURIOUS CASE OF SPOONERISM<span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>"Ma , aajke English marks peyechhi ." ( "Ma, we got our English marks today") My son squealed from his room. It was over half an hour since he had returned from school. I was arranging the dining table for the lunch. Since their schooltimes had changed due to the winter season, I was having late lunches. By the time both my children returned home it was 2:30 p.m. and while my stomach pined for some morsels , my brain was an entangled mess which saw and heard nothing but food , food , and food . </strong><br /><br /><strong>"Ma, English marks peyechhi!" He screamed again. This time louder and sharper.</strong><br /><strong>I heard him. But what I heard was the bone of contention for at least another half an hour</strong> .<br /><strong>" Ki, ilish maachh kheyechish?" ( "What , you ate hilsa fish?")</strong><br /><strong>"Where on earth you found "ilish maachh" in this part of the season? This boy will eat from anywhere around the world but home ! " </strong><br /><strong>I was quite hyper both vocally and physically. I barged into his room. Meanwhile my son was still busy with the BEN TEN posters that he had collected from different sources. </strong><br /><strong>"You still have'nt changed your dress? And where did you eat that blasted 'ilish' ? Who brought it in the tiffin? Did you eat your own tiffin or has it come back untouched?"</strong><br /><strong>He stood gaping at me as I took some time to gasp for breath</strong>. <strong>He seemed to have a confirmed expression on his face which stated that his mother was slowly sliding away from sanity. By now my daughter had entered the highly dramatic scene , quite incensed and effused by the prospect that 'ilish maachh' <span style="color:#cc66cc;">WAS</span> indeed available during this time of the year , quite contrary to what she was told or what she had heard.</strong><br /><strong>"Kothai kheli Bhai, ke enechhe tiffin e?" ( Who offered you , brother ; who brought 'ilish ' in tiffin? ) , lapping her tongue over her lips as she <span style="color:#cc66cc;">simply loved</span> it.</strong><br /><strong>She then turned to me and challenged me why I had kept her in the dark with such misinformation......................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</strong><br /><strong></strong><br /><strong>At great length , my son took out his English answer paper from his bag and dangled it under my nose. "Eta peychhi" (" I got this " ). </strong><br /><strong>Finally, it dawned on me that I had heard wrong . Hunger not only takes away one's energy but also one's audibility !</strong><br /><strong>Moral of the story: <span style="color:#ff99ff;">W<img class="gl_color_fg" height="1" alt="Text Color" src="http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif" border="0" />hen hungry , EAT: DONT WAIT FOR OTHERS TO EAT.</span></strong><br /><strong></strong><br /><strong></strong></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-44113298029718738042009-01-20T13:00:00.009+05:302010-03-24T21:18:21.391+05:30Yes, I Live for them !<span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>I write naturally because I think naturally. But I am not a great writer because I am not a great thinker. And again, I write occasionally not because I think occasionally but because I am a mother.</strong>
<br /><strong>In my teenaged daughter's eyes I am a supermom. In my adolescent son's eyes , ''East or West , my momma is the best". They are over- zealous with their plain, simple mother . All I can say about myself is that these kids of mine are what I live for . Doing that extra bit to see their brilliant million-watt smile is far fulfilling and rewarding than being gifted a million- dollar diamond . </strong></span>
<br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>It's a different matter though that no one gifts me a diamond !</strong>
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<br /><strong>Mothering children has its own pleasures...... and ...er...displeasures. Yesterday I sat with my eight- year old son with his school-work . Since a long time he had'nt got a 'star' remark in his school copies. I was sort of sulking and chiding him for his lack of</strong> <strong>aptitude in studies. Then he drew my notice to the language homework that was due. Wasting no further time I opened the page where he was given a set of sentences to mark the tenses.</strong> </span>
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<br /><strong>1. I am playing with a ball. </strong>
<br /><strong>2. Mona on the stage.</strong></span>
<br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>3. Father bought a new car.</strong>
<br /><strong>4. I will never disobey .</strong>
<br /><strong>5. My mother is a beautiful woman.</strong> </span>
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<br /><strong>He responded to all the first three sentences correctly, answering "present tense " for the first two , and "past tense" for the third one. So far so good . By now much of my tension had diffused. With some rejuvenated spirit I proceeded with the last two sentences. But Fates, and Frolic seemed too limited in my fortune, for , when I asked him to say the tenses of the fourth</strong><strong> and the fifth statement , he </strong><strong>answered that they both were "past tense". Exasperated yet as calm as one can be, I asked him why he said so. </strong>
<br /><strong>He replied more calmly. There was a genuine nonchalance in his voice, "No one obeys now a days. Didi did so in the past. I too obeyed in the past, did'nt I ? And in the fifth sentence...." </strong>
<br /><strong>I cut him short. Too my abashment I understood his implications !</strong>
<br /><strong>He was judging the tenses not by the grammatical rules but by their face value !</strong>
<br /><strong>Needless to say, my next assignment was to clarify the haze from his mind.</strong>
<br /><strong>[Although the fifth sentence continued to haunt my mind ! ]</strong>
<br /><strong>But at 9 o'clock that very night as I was packing his bag , I</strong> <strong>suddenly noticed the last page of his English copy. He had made a small sketch of me there. The vermilion, the tiny bindi and even the miniscule mole on the right cheek were in place.</strong>
<br /><strong>Below were written his favourite words, . "East or West, Momma is the best".</strong></span>
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<br /><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-11878503431106625652009-01-10T10:56:00.008+05:302009-01-11T16:57:25.211+05:30TALE OF TWO SOULS<span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:lucida grande;"><strong><em>Some time back while flipping through the pages of a poetry book titled 'Figments of Imagination', I chanced to read W.H.Auden's 'September 1939', which is a moving yet shocking revelation of the feelings of Americans of the uncertainties of the future before the Second World War, the time when Hitler attacked Poland in a Blitzkrieg operation.</em></strong></span><br /><br /><strong><em>As I was ruminating about the atrocities of Hitler and his troubled childhood, having done some research on his background, my mind inadvertently began to hover around him. Simultaneously , I also thought , about our own Gandhi. The two were entirely contrasting personalities- the former, ruthlessly violent, barbaric and heinous; while the other resilient, meek and non-violent. The two had never met during their lifetimes. </em></strong><br /><strong><em>The reason why I thought of the two historic yet contradictory figures, deserves some explanation . </em></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>I was actually reminded of my adolescent period when a group of three of us, [ popurlarly known as ' The Three Daredevil Musketeers' ], felt a strange urge to talk to spirits. YES SPIRITS! We were in the tenth standard and had fared miserably in History and Geography in the second terminal examinations. We were looking for some good guides. And what better guide than the spirits -who- know-all, thought we ! </em></strong><br /><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>They and only they could give us redemption, we thought again. </em></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>Our next hurdle was , which spirit to call. After a long session of polemic arguments and disputation we zeroed in to two figures: Hitler and Gandhi. the reasons for the choice was this: both were historical figures, so both could throw light on each's geography too !!! " But why on the blasted earth Hitler and Gandhi?" exclaimed some exasperated one. " And why not?" Tempers , by now were fairly high- strung. "See , their nature is like oil and water- unmixable. So when you ask a question and when one answers wrong, the other will automatically or invariably counter him. So either way their is no chance for us to be screwed." I suggested, quite happy at my innovative ingenuity ! </em></strong><br /><strong><em>After the frayed tempers had been cooled at large, we then sorted out the basic questions - the questions that needed to be asked to our V.I.S. </em></strong><br /><strong><em>[ S for spirits]. </em></strong><br /><strong><em>A day was chosen. A dark moonless day, at my own house, my own room . Here the three of us sat piously around a table. The fourth chair was unoccupied. We now wished ,"We would'nt really have minded to be called 'THE AWSOME FOURSOME' " with a fourth friend.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>Incence sticks were lighted, prayers were chanted, invocations were made.</em></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>Then the spirits were summoned. </em></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>As they began their downward journey towards the earth from their extra- terrestrial abode, it was Gandhi who broke the ice . As usual, he had no qualms in setting the ball rolling.</em></strong> </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><strong><em>"Hey Hitler, " were his first words now. His last words were ,"Hey Ram". How death changes people ! </em></strong><br /><strong><em>" And is not this our innocuous, irreproachable Gandhi, from India?"</em></strong><br /><strong><em>"Namaste, Hitler saab.Thanks for remembering me. You see I am forcefully remembered in my country , through relics, 'samadhi-sthal', edicts, currency notes, memorials, movies and the like. By the way, Charlie's take on you in the movie , 'The Great Dictator' was also superb. We great men are drilled into the minds of the common , uninterested people. No wonder then that death becomes us. How are you?</em></strong> "<br /><strong><em>"I was fine, till some time back. But you see these mortals, they will not let you be in peace." </em></strong><br /><strong><em>"Ha, peace ! Who's talking of peace? The man who killed the very word 'peace' along with millions of people in his lifetime, talks of peace post death. No wonder death changes people !"</em></strong><br /><br /><strong><em>Hitler was uncannily silent. Was it the lull before the storm? </em></strong><br /><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>In fact, the whole atmosphere around us was drowned in a pall of utter silence. I even sensed an icy cold aura pervading over us. Yes, our guests had arrived. I became sure because the coin beneath my right index finger had begun to quiver. Before I could realise it , the coin began to move violently as an unseen power began to control both my finger and the discoid metal. </em></strong><br /><strong><em>I perceived that my other two valiant partners were shaking too ! We forgot all our rehearsed questions. I only managed to ask, " How do you do?" While Hitler and Gandhi reigned, History and Geography were forgotton subjects. Along with these two vexing subjects many other things faded into oblivion- our senses !</em></strong><br /><br /><strong><em>I next found myself under curious, peeping people two of whom I slowly recollected as my mother and my father. Of course, neither had smiles on their faces !</em></strong> <br /><br /><strong><em>My two other friends, I </em></strong><strong><em>wisely gathered, had regained their senses much before I did !!!</em></strong><strong><em><br /></em></strong><br /><strong><em></em></strong><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em></em></strong></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-80497915686129542102008-12-30T19:34:00.008+05:302009-01-03T10:19:07.208+05:30<span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">New Year Resolutions </span></em></strong><br /><br /><br /><strong><em>Today my students asked me if I had made any new year resolutions. </em></strong><br /><strong><em>I said I never made any. "I never make anything to unmake it." </em></strong><br /><strong><em>"Don't you think Ma'am you are a bit old fashioned?" Sumit remarked tentatively.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>"What has fashion to do with resolutions, Sumit?" I retorted, a bit shocked.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>"It's the in thing Ma'am. Everyone makes it, specially our school teachers. Our English teacher has in fact even given us a holiday assignment of listing our resolutions and how we plan to execute it. "</em></strong><br /><strong><em>"Fine," I say, "Let's talk more on it, since you all are so keen on this topic."</em></strong><br /><br /><br /><strong><em>Having said so I began to think was I really orthodox , or backward never to make any new year resolutions? Was I not trendy or 'cool' ? I then threw a veiled glance at the class and found them busy sharing each other's NYR [the acronym for New Year Resolutions ]. So I continued my self-introspection. Actually, I said to myself, I was not only trendy or 'cool' but also honest. I had the guts to call a spade a spade. The guts to say that it is just mere <span style="font-family:arial;">fashion</span> to make NYR. I am sure all those who make them are a bunch of blasting liars. Resolutions, as the word suggests, literally means purposeful determination- the willpower and tenacity to stick onto something. Now, making a NYR at the beginning of the year and adhering to it throughout the whole span of the year, is not only ridiculous but also cumbersome and unpractical, according to me . It gives you a foolish rigidity and takes away the </em></strong><strong><em>elasticity. </em></strong><br /><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>It is like I promise myself in the morning ,"I will not lie today," which means I cannot go to bed in the afternoon!!</em></strong><br /><strong><em>How can one promise himself something and cling to it till the 365th day, without getting irked, frustrated or desperate? </em></strong><br /><strong><em>The class, by now had assimilated some opinions and wanted me to join in.</em></strong><br /><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>"Why is a NYR not worth encouraging according to you , ma'am?" Raima chipped. "Should'nt we try to continuously better ourselves? Why do you cross us in this exigent? Did'nt you yourself suggest spontaneous improvement ? What is wrong if a person self-acknowledges his lacunae and swears to improve himself ? Don't you think ma'am you are trying to shirk away from commitment and responsibility?'' </em></strong><br /><strong><em></em></strong><br /><strong><em>I was indeed flabbergasted by these volley of questions.</em></strong><strong><em> </em></strong><br /><strong><em>Gathering my wits I bravely quipped, "See Raima, you have yourself answered your questions. Bettering oneself is a continuous process which requires performance, not words. Spontaneous improvement is possible only when we focus on our present problems and act on them. It requires a tacit action not a proclaimed announcement. It needs dedication and involvement of the SELF, not public endorsement."</em></strong><br /><strong><em>Way back in the early 90's , I had once taken a resolution to reduce my weight from 56 kgs to 50 kgs. Consequently the first month of January was spent in setting the Thames on fire and burning the candle on both ends so that my ends looked slimmer. By the end of February I actually secured my target but by November I embraced my earlier weight attaching a few more bonus kgs to it!</em></strong><br /><br /><strong><em>This experience taught me two lessons. First : Resolutions taken are rigorously and ritualistically followed in the first month. As the year progresses, they are dusted below the carpet. They become passe. Second : Therefore make simple resolutions, like say ," I'll do exercise once in three months!"</em></strong><br /><strong><em>I have heard that the Americans make the most New Year Resolutions the top five being :1. I will lose weight.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>2. I will show more fidelity towards my partner .</em></strong><br /><strong><em>3. I will be good to my neighbours.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>4. I will be more organised in my workplace.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>5. I will abstain from having random sex.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>I will comment only on the first one. America is one of those nations which is plagued with obesity which seems to be a national crisis!!</em></strong><br /><span style="font-family:courier new;">Nevertheless, it is never the worse to begin the year with virtuous thoughts, positive approach, benign faith and good hope.</span><br /></span><span style="font-family:courier new;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><strong><em>But I did hear to my utter horror, that next year, my students had indeed planned to submit their winter holiday assignments writing about how unhealthy it was, to begin the year with lies, lies and more lies!!!<br /></em></strong></span><br /></span></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-21258037389651802212008-12-11T12:48:00.014+05:302009-01-03T13:11:21.592+05:30REVEIWING The White Tiger<p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:130%;">The White Tiger is a dark, compelling, thought-provoking, stark and a blatantly naked novel. It is a gripping tale of how Munna, aka Balram halwai, aka Ashok Sharma, aka the white tiger , struggles against his sordid birth and background which is so poverty and misfortune stricken. Balram finally succeeds in vanquishing his enemy , that is indigence and penury and frees himself from the shackles of servitude, but not before terminating the life of his very employer Mr.Ashok Sharma whom he would have loved to call [the Lamb]. </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:130%;">It is indeed a very different and thought provoking situation, because unlike any other case, where the perpetrator of violence and murder is either provoked, angered, humiliated, beaten, avenged or dealt with harshly by his victim, in this case, the murderer, Balram Halwai does not harp any such angst against his meek, considerate and caring master. He just kills him coldly and later feels sorry for the deceased ! He would rather have killed his elder brother [ the Mongoose], against whom he harps enough disdain, or even their father, [ the Stork, THE GREAT SOCIALIST].</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:130%;">But Balram is a killer with a purpose. He loathes his lifelong servility, having to grovel and toady every now and then. He has BIG dreams. Dreams to quit being a driver. Dreams to become rich. Dream to be an entrepreneur.</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:130%;">Thus his chance journey away from the murky village of Darkness , to Delhi, the Light, is fraught with struggles. The readers are of course supplied with acrid humour, showing the utter despondancy of our protagonist who is on his plight to become The White Tiger. Yes, he achieves all his dreams.</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:130%;">The narration is addressed to The Premier Of China. Why China ? He already expresses his admiation for three nations in the early part of his novel, the two others being Afghanistan and Abyssinia as they never let themselves be ruled by foreigners. It is indeed exemplary, how this ' half-baked clay' rises from filth to fecundity.</span></p><p><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:130%;">THE WHITE TIGER, with its dark plot makes for a compelling read.</span></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span></em></strong></p><p></p><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3947173903035999779.post-29379489034877886742008-11-28T10:27:00.006+05:302009-07-07T11:03:21.933+05:30NOTHING CAN INTIMIDATE OUR BRAVE METTLE!<span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>Even as I sit to write this, my mind is eclipsed with numbness and horror to the umpteen degree.Right it is, that I am not anywhere demographically near to what is happening in Mumbai, but nonetheless I wholly share the pain and the trauma of the crisis there.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>Vijay Mallya has aptly termed the terrorist crisis as the 9/11 of India. The whole world empathises with the Mumbaikars. The entire nation is shocked and grieving. I personally salute, along with my country, those heroes - the police officers who lay their lives in the fight against terrorism. I specially offer my heartiest homage to those staff of the Taj Hotel who, despite being common people, sacrificed their lives for saving their guests. They have indeed proved that the highest standards of hospitality lie not only in providing luxury and comfort which do come with a cost, but also in laying their own lives to safeguard their esteemed guests which is costless ! Besides, all the police officers, the constables and even the common ones who are handing out teacups to the officers-on-duty, are doing no mean stuff. </em></strong><br /><strong><em>Even as I write this, I pledge never to feel morally and mentally subdued by the humanity-starved, psychological-deviants, ethically-deprived brutish beasts, whose sole purpose is to intimidate us with their fatalistic gimmickery.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>Even as I write this, I know that all I am doing right now is offering my words, yet hoping that, sometimes words can be mightier than guns and bullets- because being a commonplace citizen,if I can feel the pangs of sorrow , will not our leaders feel the brunt and pangs all the damned MORE?</em></strong></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanx. Have a rockin' day!!</div>life springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897090911881778072noreply@blogger.com6